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上头，梳发时说几句祝福
上头是婚前的梳发仪式，梳发时伴随祝福，寄托着对新人迈入人生新阶段的期盼。相比婚宴的热闹，这个环节更接近家中的相处。谁来梳、说哪些话，各家可能保留不同版本。若家里曾有这样的仪式，一把梳子、一句熟悉的祝词，都可能让长辈想起自己的婚礼。
Shang Tou: blessings while combing the hair
Shang Tou is a pre-wedding hair-combing ceremony accompanied by blessings for a new stage of life. Its setting can feel more intimate than the banquet. Who performs it and which words are spoken may differ between families. A comb or familiar phrase can also bring back an elder's memories of their own wedding.
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